How to Show Appreciation and Respect for Your Clients
Email has really taken over as the #1 form of communication, to the point where it’s rare to receive anything significant by mail. As a result, when you do, it really stands out. That’s the principle behind companies like SendOutCards and Client Connections. And I have to admit that I love it when something unexpected shows up in my mailbox. Like a couple of weeks ago, I was puzzled to receive a large envelope from EzineArticles.com, but my confusion turned to delight when I opened it to find a mousepad with "Ezine Articles Expert Author" on it. That made me feel really good! (Now I just need a mouse to go with it.)
On the other hand, email is so easy and so affordable, that some people really abuse it. I recently heard through one of my online groups that a certain marketing expert was going to be offering her very last free teleclasses this week. I had heard of this person many times so I thought I should take advantage of this opportunity, and signed up for the teleclass. As expected, I received an email confirming my registration. That was fine. I also received a newsletter and a "special announcement", which was not fine, but I thought I’d better wait until after the teleclasses to remove myself from her mailing list to make sure I received the link to the recordings. Over the past week I have received at least 8 emails from her, including three "courtesy" messages reminding me about the call being "tomorrow," "today," and "in a few hours" PLUS a voicemail reminder. I haven’t looked up "courtesy" in the dictionary lately, but I’m pretty sure it doesn’t mean the same as "harassment." This experience has made me question the value of the information being offered – is this the way she recommends people market their services? No thank you! And I will definitely not be purchasing or recommending any of her products or services either.
One last comment, before I get off my soapbox – back on the topic of paper mail. I received something in the mail from a supplier, who spelled both my business name and my last name wrong. That doesn’t endear me either.
What do these stories have in common? They show the ways that your communications can influence your clients. So, remember these three things:
- Show your clients you appreciate them by occasionally sending a card or small gift instead of an email.
- Do NOT assume that potential clients have nothing more important to do with their time than read multiple messages from you containing the same information.
- Make sure you spell their names correctly!
As a result of one of those meetings, I’ve been invited to be a presenter at 


"My day starts as I stumble bleary-eyed downstairs to read my email while having a coffee around 6 am. Email tasks are usually finished by 7 am and I have the rest of my breakfast. I then get presentable to meet my public (the ones I never see!) and I pretend to start my first project for the day about 9 am — an action that kids no-one, least of all me. From 9 am to 10 am I mess around. Write two words, look for a meaning for a word on the internet, answer a query from a course student, write another two words, have a friendly email discourse with a résumé writer or two, read and respond to e-list postings, jot down a blog entry and read the newspaper. I’ll do this until a mental calculation tells me that I won’t be able to finish the writing project I have scheduled if I keep messing around one minute longer. After this mental calculation I then mess around about a half an hour longer only to panic, act surprised like I don’t know where my day could have possibly gone, and then knuckle down and start work. By 5:30 pm, I have met my deadline by finishing the work I had scheduled for that day." 

